What does it really mean to have a good partner? Is it someone who is sexy?funny? charming? successful? dance like Usher or Michael Jackson, or Ciara or Beyoncé? sing like Trey Songz, Deon Kippling, or Alicia Keys or Adele? or good in bed? All of that is fine if you want that in a partner but the main key quoted in this post is feeling safe in that relationship.
Take me for example, I been in a good and bad relationships. My heart has been broken and I have broken hearts to ( so don’t front ladies and say you don’t break hearts because we sure do just like men out here). Every time I converse with a guy they will always ask this question: What kind of guy I like/What are you looking for in a guy? Can i be honest with y’all? There are times I would say he have to charming, truthful, be themselves, know what they want in life but other times my answer will be I don’t know. I don’t know what I want in a guy anymore because there are times what I want I do not get it all the time even if I pray about it.
There are people in this world that have a checklist of what they want in a guy or a girl ( I threw my checklist away). Why have a checklist to find a good partner? WHY??????? Listen checklists are good for groceries but when it comes to finding a good partner you do not need a checklist. I know people who have a checklist when they are looking a for guy: here it goes
- he have to look good
- he have to be my height or taller ( like Shaquille O’Neal or Yao Ming)
- he have to be saved and filled with the Holy Ghost
- he not supposed to have no children
- no baby mama or ex-wife drama
- he have to drive a car
- have a good job
- not a mama’s boy
- he knows how to dress
There is more but I am going to stop. We can not always find everything on that list, whether we like it or not. If you like it that is great but if you do not then stay single honey.
Say we do find our good partner that
- makes us feel comfortable
- don’t mind us being ourselves
- don’t mind talking to us about their problem or our problems
- is loyal
- is not afraid to put their all in all in the relationship
- trustworthy
- dependable
- able to say sorry straight up
- not controlling
- optimistic
- make fun of each other and laugh about it
- makes you really feel like you matter by looking in your eyes straight
But you know what sometimes when we find that good partner, we just scared because you really start to wonder and ask God: if this is truly my partner for life, show me the signs before it is too late. As years go by, sometimes we are fooled and heart-broken by that good partner.
SO ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS:
- IS THERE A GOOD PARTNER OUT THERE FOR ME?
- WHY IS ALL THE GOOD PARTNERS TAKEN?
- WILL MY GOOD PARTNER EVER MARRY ME?
- GOD AM I GOING TO SINGLE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE?
LOVE YOUR LIFE AND KNOW YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE YOUR TRUE PARTNER COMES IN YOUR HEART.
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