What is Life? What is your Life full off? If we compare our life, would it be the same?

Life is the existence of an individual human being and animal

I am in my 20’s and I realize as I go my life changes in different ways.

People have more fun when they are young but I don’t that’s true. I have seen older people do more than me. Unlike me people are willing to take a risk on something they never done before. I took one risk in my life and that was Zip Lining. I am afraid of heights and I mean afraid of HEIGHTS. My life changed after that because it is something I always wanted to do but I was afraid but I took a chance because people always say YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE or YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE LIVE IT. Older people do zip lining, ride roller coaster, bungee jumping, skydiving and much more.

Life is full of surprises. Life is full of laughter. HAVE GOD IN YOUR LIFE YOU NEED HIM.





Little Lyrics That Get Me Through Anything


I stand amazed at your glory. I stand amazed at your glory.
I stand amazed at your strength. I stand at amazing your strength.
I stand amazed at your power
So Amazing, So Amazing

Hezekiah Walker- Amazing

Let Your power fall
When Your name is called
Prove the doubters wrong
You’re still mighty and strong
Fight this battle for me
Help my unbelief
So I can tell my friends
You have won again

Let Your Power Fall- Deon Kipping

You made a way
When our backs were against the wall
And it looked as if it was over
You made a way
And we’re standing here
Only because you made a way
You made a way

You Made A Way- Travis Greene

I smile,  even though I hurt see I smile
I know God is working so I smile
Even though I’ve been here for a while
I smile, smile
It’s so hard to look up when you been down
Sure would hate to see you give up now
You look so much better when you smile, so smile

Kirk Franklin- I Smile


We hear so many great songs that inspired us, that touches our heart til we just start crying because of the words that we are hearing.

To name a few songs that touch me is:

Hezekiah Walker- Amazing

Travis Greene- Made A Way, Intentional, Thank You For Being God, Just Want You, You Keep Me

Tye Tribbett- What Can I Do

Casey J- I’m Yours, Have Your Way

Todd Dulaney- The Anthem, Free Worship

And there are more.

But this song in particular just brings me to tears and I have to hear it every time and I never get tired of it because it speaks the truth. We tried to do things on our own but we fail because we not trusting in God to help us. We are not patient, we want to go ahead and not wait for God.

Deon Kipping  have many songs but “BY MYSELF” is my song to the fullest. I cry because this line says “BY MYSELF IT WON’T WORK“. STOP DOING IT BY YOURSELF.





In Acts 3:19 it said

 Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out,that times of refreshing may come from the Lord


In Romans 2:5

But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed.


I’m not letting it be clear for everyone to know i’m not PERFECT,  I am human but I am also a CHILD OF GOD and I need to learn to stop being stubborn and repent but it takes time and i’m learning as I go.


I have read a quote and it said this:

My past has not defined me, destroyed me, deterred or defeated me: it has only strengthened me

I have let my past effect my present. I did not care if my past came into my present because I thought my past will come back as a changed person but boy was I wrong. I let my past effect my relationship that I was in. I let that past get in my head and fill me up with so much things. I let my past  defined me. I am not going to say that my past did not want the best for me when it came to education but when it came to relationships I let my past hold my heart for so long but i broke that chain this time and it is final.


This quote is so true especially to me. My past tell me the same thing and it still tell me the same thing til this day. I must say my past been trying to come back lately and when I say i broke the chain I was serious. No longer does my past exist in my future. If my past want to be friends that is fine but it will not chain my heart. I pray that my future will take me far in life and don’t become like my past.




Finding A Good Partner

What does it really mean to have a good partner? Is it someone who is sexy?funny? charming? successful? dance like Usher or Michael Jackson, or Ciara or Beyoncé? sing like Trey Songz, Deon Kippling, or Alicia Keys or Adele?  or good in bed? All of that is fine if you want that in a partner but the main key quoted in this post is feeling safe in that relationship.

Take me for example, I been in a good and bad relationships. My heart has been broken and I have broken hearts to ( so don’t front ladies and say you don’t break hearts because we sure do just like men out here). Every time I converse with a guy they will always ask this question: What kind of guy I like/What are you looking for in a guy? Can i be honest with y’all? There are times I would say he have to charming, truthful, be themselves, know what they want in life but other times my answer will be I don’t know. I don’t know what I want in a guy anymore because there are times what I want I do not get it all the time even if I pray about it. 

There are people in this world that have a checklist of what they want in a guy or a girl ( I threw my checklist away). Why have a checklist to find a good partner? WHY??????? Listen checklists are good for groceries but when it comes to finding a good partner you do not need a checklist. I know people who have a checklist when they are looking a for guy: here it goes

  • he have to look good
  • he have to be my height or taller ( like Shaquille O’Neal or Yao Ming)
  • he have to be saved and filled with the Holy Ghost
  • he not supposed to have no children
  • no baby mama or ex-wife drama
  • he have to drive a car
  • have a good job
  • not a mama’s boy
  • he knows how to dress

There is more but I am going to stop. We can not always find everything on that list, whether we like it or not. If you like it that is great but if you do not then stay single honey.

Say we do find our good partner  that

  • makes us feel comfortable
  • don’t mind us being ourselves
  • don’t mind talking to us about their problem or our problems
  • is loyal
  • is not afraid to put their all in all in the relationship
  • trustworthy
  • dependable
  • able to say sorry straight up
  • not controlling
  • optimistic
  • make fun of each other and laugh about it
  • makes you really feel like you matter by looking in your eyes straight

But you know what sometimes when we find that good partner, we just scared because you really start to wonder and ask God: if this is truly my partner for life, show me the signs before it is too late. As years go by, sometimes we are fooled and heart-broken by that good partner.